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Just because this person is your friend—presumably someone whom you know and who knows you well enough—does not automatically mean that they will respect your sexual boundaries, or even know what those boundaries are.
Even worse, it's easy to get stuck in this holding pattern where one person almost always develops feelings while the other person falls for someone else. You might attend a few meetings with your friend. That you can just hop in the sack and do your thing and give each other high fives afterwards.
And then Facebook will know. How do you get two friends to hook up?
I tell my friends all the time that if they ever need anything that i am always there for them. I, and I alone, maliciously tore apart a meaningful relationship for my own selfish gain.
10 REASONS WHY IT IS NOT OKAY TO HOOK UP WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND
First you gotta introduce them cause if they don't know each other the relationship wont really work so hang out with the both of them together and when your alone with each of them only say good things about the other person and ask about the other person and how they feel about them if they like each other have one of them send the other a message, text or in person saying do you want to go out with me or will you go out with me?
Well in my experience i hooked up with this cute guy i was crushing on him after the deed was done; class the next day way weird. He had no ownership over me—and I felt totally OK about that.
Confidence will be at an all-time high.
And at that point, is it really worth doing it at all? Guy friends can often be hypersensitive to you getting attached at all, and misinterpret you popping up as something to do with more than just being friends.